Discover how to:
- Meet your prospective partner.
- Attract the person you want.
- Seduce any one you desire.
- Please and keep your partner.
“PEOPLE USED TO LOOK OUT ON THE PLAYGROUND AND SAY THAT THE BOYS WERE PLAYING SOCCER AND THE GIRLS WERE DOING NOTHING. BUT THE GIRLS WEREN’T DOING NOTHING – THEY WERE TALKING. THEY WERE TALKING ABOUT THE WORLD TO ONE ANOTHER. AND THEY BECAME VERY EXPERT ABOUT
Carol Gilligan,
In a Different Voice: Psychological Theory and Women’s Development
Most guys don’t ‘get it’ when it comes to understanding women. A woman can tell an awful lot about a guy from what he’s wearing, his body language and how he talks and carries himself. It’s taken me some time to get to where I am right now but I finally ‘got it’ and it will be my pleasure to share what I know with anyone who cares to find out.
I’ll start with a few tips for the men:
- Learn how to subtly approach women: those Fresh Prince of Bel Air pick-up lines don’t work (the exception to this is for good-looking and/or rich guys); they can get away with a
- Foreplay is VERY important: if you want hot physical sex then you need to understand that a woman’s sexual energy flows from the top-down i.e. from the head, to the heart, then to the pelvis. Whereas a man’s sexual energy follows a bottom-up approach…therefore, the man is usually ready to go way before the woman is but if you wait till she’s ready, you will get a much more responsive woman.
Now for the Ladies:
- It’s okay to show a guy that you like him without being too obvious about it: Playing ‘hard to get’ all the time doesn’t help-many men fear rejection and won’t approach you if they’re not sure of the outcome…They may want to talk to you but their ego won’t allow it.
- Don’t sell yourself short thinking that “time is running out”: Be selective about which men you go out with. Do not date just to be dating if it is not someone that interests you. A few years of happiness are much better than a lifetime of boredom and regret.
