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Monday, July 13

There is no 2nd chance to make a First Impression

One needs to be confident and in control around women; you ought to be comfortable with yourself and what you do. Whenever a woman believes a man is confident, it’s attractive at a sub-conscious level.


Women are most attracted by:

  1. Means – wealth and possessions which proves that the man is able to provide for her needs and wants.
  2. Power – this implies influence, leadership, control, safety and security i.e. he will take charge of the relationship.
  3. Fame – yep, famous guys turn women on.
  4. Looks
  5. Exclusivity – whether he is married or plays ‘hard to get’.
  6. Personality – humor, creativity, romantic, adventurous etc.


As evidenced above, your personality is the thing that you can most readily use, work on and/or improve to attract women RIGHT NOW!

It should be noted that the one quality that attracts women the most (and keeps them attracted) is not something they can initially ‘see’, it’s the way they FEEL when they’re with you or thinking about you.


What women find sexy

  1. Cocky-funny humor: women like being teased, messed with and made fun of (e.g. just like when they were kids and guys teased them, pulled their hair etc..)

  1. Men who are in control of their emotion, the situation and the conversation.

  1. Guys who are unpredictable e.g. compliment her in a back-handed and unpredictable manner. You could say –

“I think you’re pretty-it’s a pity you’re too nice…we can’t go out”/ “You’re so cute…you remind me of my little sister” or you can compliment her one day on something that she’s wearing and then the next time she has it on you say nothing.


Women find it exciting and challenging, so be different in an attractive way coz people are attracted to things that are UNIQUE and thus SUPERIOR.

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