SEDUCTION

Seduction is mutual: if you can build enough comfort with a woman for her to be alone with you during the mid-game stage, then she will readily agree to have sex with you in the end-game stage. In fact, she may very well try to seduce you.

THE SEX LOCATION

Most meeting locations, including many of those for comfort building, are inappropriate settings for sexual intimacy. So participating in a mutual seduction will require jumping to a sex location.

A sex location is marked primarily by its privacy. It should also be in close proximity to a comfort-building location, so that you have only a short distance to move when the time comes. For example, your bedroom is very near your living room.

The best seduction location is one that allows you complete control, such as the bedroom of your own apartment or house. Here few variables (phone calls, roommates, parents, pets, etc.) can impede your success.

Consider the various benefits and limitations of the following sex locations:

• A vehicle

• A hotel room

• A friend's living room or bedroom

• The woman's bedroom

• Your bedroom

Some comfort-building locations, such as a private living room, may also be good sex locations. If you are in such a location, you can save yourself from having to move to the sex location.

Secure a sex location before approaching a woman in a meeting location. Don't leave the success of your end-game to chance.

LAST-MINUTE RESISTANCE

Every woman has hardwired into her head a behavioral circuit that works to protect her from getting pregnant by a man who has no intention of sticking around to help raise the child. The resistant behavior this emotive circuit elicits right before first-time sex is called last-minute resistance. It is your job to ease her through this uncomfortable emotion should it arise. Having sex carries a much larger risk and investment for a woman than it does for a man from an evolutionary perspective. Last-minute resistance is her last line of defense before the point of no return.

A woman's LMR threshold may differ from person to person, and a woman's own LMR threshold will change depending on the value of the man she is about to sleep with and other circumstances.

Here are some common trigger points:

• Kissing

• Touching breasts

• Top removal

• Bra removal

• Pants removal

• Panties removal

• Fingering

• Oral sex (giving or receiving)

OVERCOMING LAST-MINUTE RESISTANCE

"You've hijacked My Brain ..."

Your romantic interest may not feel qualified enough for you. She may believe that if she gives it up too easily, you will simply move on afterward. This is why it's so important in the attraction phase that she feels her efforts are succeeding and that she is winning you over. If this is missing, girls will freak out just prior to sex and say, "Why me? Why do you like me?" or, "I don't even know you...." If you say, "Baby, I just can't stop thinking about you," this would inoculate against her LMR, but only if it were said hours earlier in the comfort phase. Say that while in bed with her and you could be lying to get her to submit to you. Instead, repeatedly convey to her throughout the comfort phases that your brain has been hijacked, that you can't help but think of her constantly, and that the feeling is growing stronger and stronger. Don't creep her out and stalk her. Just tell her she is on your mind more often than you thought possible and it concerns you a bit.

"We Should Stop ..."

The primary technique in the LMR arsenal is token resistance, usually verbal in nature while the physical simultaneously continues to escalate.

She may say, "Baby, we should slow this down." What is the purpose of this?

The ideal scenario involves growing sexual tension that, at some point, triggers a loss of all control (and therefore accountability). She cannot help but be ravenously taken. It's not her fault. A force overtook her utterly beyond her control: the force of nature. Token resistance is necessary to make that feeling real. If you don't resist, she will.

Notice that if she gives token resistance, the best response is to just agree with her and even echo it. If you disagree, you are only giving her something to push against. Don't give her traction by way of disagreement.

If you're undressing her and she says, "We should stop," just agree with her... and then keep going. "I know, baby," you reply as you continue to undress her. "We should stop."

PLAY SOLID GAME

Her emotional circuitry is designed to select for a high-value man whom she trusts and with whom she pair-bonds. If your game is tight, last-minute resistance will be greatly reduced as an issue. So examine your basic game.

SEX

Having sex with a woman for the first time is what you've been waiting for, the culmination of your efforts, the payoff for your Venusian arts mastery. Yet going to bed is more than just a successful conclusion to courtship; Seduction also opens a new door to the beginning of the next phase of your relationship with the woman.

The focus during your first sexual encounter should be on making her comfortable, having fun and playing, and taking your connection to a higher level. Unless the two of you share a mutually agreed-upon interest, save the freaky stuff for later. When you're slowly undressing her for the first time, whisper in her ear how beautiful she looks bathed in candlelight—don't ask if she's into anal sex or if you can tie her up to the bedpost. During that first encounter, definitely keep the whips and chains in your toy box.

Practicing safe sex is always incredibly important, but particularly so during your first encounter with a woman. Be sure to use protection, for your sake and hers. Being irresponsible during an initial sexual encounter is hardly a prescription for building mutual trust. What's more, if you're irresponsible and acquire a communicable disease in the process, your gaming will be severely curtailed. That's the best-case scenario, too. Needless to say, unprotected partners can even put each other's lives in jeopardy. Nothing is worth that risk.

By carefully choosing your target in the field and then confirming the validity of your choice through the attraction, comfort-building, and seduction phases you will have selected a woman of such beauty and quality that you will want to have sex with her many times.

There's also the high that comes from getting a phone message from the woman telling you what a wonderful time she had, not to mention the feeling that comes from subsequent encounters that feel even more erotic than the first one because you're both more comfortable with each other.

If you have sex with the woman only once and disappear, when she wants you to stay in her life in some capacity, a protection circuit in her head will punish her, sometimes severely, for compromising her chances of survival and replication. I've been told that it feels to a woman as if something very important has been stolen from her, and it's unethical to subject anyone to such painful and regretful feelings.